I offer remote sessions
via Zoom
Take the first (and often most difficult) step and get in touch so we can start our journey together with a free 30 minute session to see if we are a good match.
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counsellingwithlucy1
@gmail.com
About Lucy
I am an English-speaking counsellor and therapist with a particular interest in working with positive change, which includes:
· relationship issues · bereavement
· grief and loss · careers · adhd
· adult-adoptees · retirement
· living with illness
In addition, stress, anxiety, depression or loneliness that may already be present or have become more pronounced as a result of any of the above
· When life presents us with challenges and difficulties, we can sometimes navigate these issues with the help of friends and family. However, there are moments when we may feel stuck or overwhelmed. In such times, I can provide a fresh perspective, enhancing self-awareness, acceptance and decision making.​
· Equally, you don’t need to be at crisis point to see a therapist. Talking to a therapist can help give shape and voice to any general feelings of discontent or unease and hopefully give you the comfort that you are not alone. ​
· I offer a confidential space to explore your unique challenges as well as look into your experiences and emotions. Together we will develop practical skills to help set healthy boundaries and challenge negative thoughts. We will look at implementing coping strategies in order to reduce your anxiety and build the resilience that you need for improved self-confidence and overall well-being. This will lead to self-awareness and personal growth.
· I have worked privately with a wide range of clients as well as volunteering with Young Minds, Princes Trust and most recently The Mulberry Centre as a volunteer counsellor supporting cancer patients, their carers and family, and the bereaved.
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Contact Lucy Bello @ counsellingwithlucy1@gmail.com
+44 7787 283895
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Stress, Anxiety & Depression
Are you affected by stress, anxiety or depression?
In today’s fast-paced and demanding world, often fuelled by social media, stress, anxiety and depression have become commonplace challenges that many face.
Together we can explore your feelings, past experiences and patterns of behaviour that might be preventing you from addressing these issues. We will also look at challenging and reframing negative thoughts - helping you to move forward and restore some balance to your life.
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Bereavement, Grief & Loss
If you are struggling with the loss of a loved one, or somebody with whom you had a difficult relationship, this can be an unbearably lonely time.
I offer a compassionate space for you in which to grieve and find meaning as you process your pain. Through therapy, we will navigate the various stages of grief, process your emotions and work towards developing healthy coping strategies.
This will help you to move forward while acknowledging and learning to value your memories.
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Friends & Family Relationships
Friends are our chosen family and navigating these relationships as well as family, romantic and professional relationships can be both challenging and emotional.
Together we will work towards establishing healthy boundaries, improving communication and fostering more fulfilling and meaningful connections.
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Retirement
As retirement looms closer, it also marks a significant milestone in life, signalling the end of one chapter and the beginning of another.
While on the one hand it brings the promise of leisure, freedom and relaxation, the emotional effects of retirement can be complex and varied including grief, loss of identity and financial concerns to name a few.
We can explore what is going on for you, enable you to process how to address these issues and examine any self-limiting beliefs that may be holding you back. This will move you forward into a new era of self-discovery and reflection.
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Adult Adoptees
​One of my specialities is working with adult-adoptees.
I understand the unique challenges adoptees face, including issues such as identity, feelings of rejection, loss, and belonging as well as supporting reunion and post reunion adjustments.
I provide a safe and confidential space for clients to explore their adoption experiences.
We can work to reframe your life story and find meaning in your experiences.
This can lead to greater self-awareness and resilience, helping you achieve a more fulfilling and balanced life.
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My Approach
In our counselling sessions, I utilise an integrative and client-centred approach, tailoring the work to your unique needs and goals and at a pace that is comfortable for you.
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Together we will embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth, enabling you to create positive and meaningful change in your life.
I draw upon various therapeutic modalities including Psychodynamic, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), mindfulness-based techniques and solution focused therapy to create a holistic and empowering experience.
Subject to your reasons for coming to counselling we may explore around the following topics:
inner critic and self-esteem
attachment theory and emotional connections
drama triangle and healthy roles
Benefits of Remote Counselling
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Accessibility: Remote counselling allows you to access counselling services anywhere with an internet connection.
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Convenience: You can schedule sessions without the need to travel to a physical location, making it easier if you are busy or have mobility issues to access therapy regularly.
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Anonymity and Privacy: You may feel more at ease in the comfort of your own home discussing sensitive and private issues. Online counselling does provide a sense of anonymity that allows for open and honest communication.
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Continuity of Care: If you have an illness that prevents you from attending, or you are a carer, remote sessions ensure that the therapy can continue uninterrupted, allowing for ongoing support and progress.
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Free 30 minute online session
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Client Consent
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Assessment
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Start Counselling
Fees & Contact
To see if we are a good match I offer a free 30 minute session
Thereafter a 50 minute session = £70
I recommend 6 sessions to start with on a weekly basis. We can then review what is going on and what your needs are going forward
I also offer single session therapy
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Concessions available on request
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URGENT HELP
Emergency
If you are worried about immediate risk of harm contact one of the following:
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Samaritans:
116 123
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Emergency services:
999
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or visit your nearest A&E and ask to see the duty psychiatrist